Family Etiquette -- Conversation Etiquette

(1) asking questions about etiquette is a good way to cause topics, to start conversations or to change topics.

Interrogation has three functions: first, to understand the situation that is not familiar by asking questions; two, to guide the other's thoughts to a certain point; three, to break the cold field and avoid deadlock.

In real life, questions should be paid attention to in the following two aspects: first, ask questions and pay attention to the content; do not ask questions that the other side is difficult to deal with.

If the other side is unable to speak of privacy.

Secondly, ask the way to pay attention.

Avoid checking accounts.

Than a visitor from Northeast China, if you ask, "are you from Northeast China?"

"The first time you came to Beijing?"

"Northeast is colder than Beijing?"

Wait, the other party will have to repeat "yes" again and again.

If you change your question, "what's new about this trip to Beijing?"

"What's the news about the construction of Northeast China?"

And so on, the other side can not only introduce something new that you do not understand, but also make the guests fully describe their feelings and make the atmosphere of the conversation natural and harmonious.

The dialogue between two people in conversation is a matter for everyone to talk about.

However, if the dialogue achieves good results, it is necessary to avoid interrupting the conversation or grabbing other people's words, so as not to disturb the thinking of others, avoid the topic of repeated conversation because of their distraction, do not casually explain some phenomenon, and make a slight assertion to show that they are expert. When the other party is interested in a topic, you will feel impatient and immediately turn the topic to your own interests.

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