Appearance And Success -- Yu Minhong

The best meaning of living

In fact, people live very well, as to whether the meaning of life is another matter.

Every day, the sun rises, and the sun goes down every day.

You can see the rosy clouds, see the sunset glow, see the moon rise and fall, and see the stars in the sky. This is the most beautiful meaning of life.

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I didn't expect Tongji University students to put my "tall" image on the big screen, which is the gap between ideal and reality.

So I believe the students will be very disappointed to see my first sight.

In fact, everyone is very ordinary. Many times we will find that very important things in our life do not have much to do with our future happiness and success.

For example, some people think that appearance has a lot to do with future success; some people think that their family background will have a certain connection with success; others think that people who go to famous universities will succeed, and those who do well in universities will be more successful than those with poor academic achievements.

All these factors may be partly right, but most of them are basically ineffective, such as looks.

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Is appearance related to success?

If a person's appearance and success are related, then there will be no Ma Yun and Alibaba, because if the students here think Ma Yun looks good-looking, it must be an aesthetic problem.

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Of course, this does not mean that people who are good-looking can't do anything, for example, another familiar Baidu boss Robin Li.

Robin Li is very handsome. All his photos look like movie stars, but he has also been successful.

So no matter how they look, they can succeed, but when Robin Li and Ma sit together to eat, they usually do not like to sit on the adjacent chairs. Because the comparison between the two people is too horrible to see. The solution is to put me in the middle of the two and play a pitional role.

Like me, people with no appearance can achieve success.

Therefore, whether men or women, the most important thing is to enrich their inner world, cultivate their own demeanor and temperament, expand their minds and unswervingly pursue their ideal goals.

As you grow older, these will slowly become your wisdom, all of which constitute the true essence of your success.

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Is there any relationship between success and family background? We can often see some powerful and wealthy families who are born with gold keys.

For example, we may see that some of the students on their left are wearing designer clothes, carrying a famous brand leather bag on the right, sitting in front of the daughter of the party secretary, and sitting behind a central leading son, and you may be a college student from an ordinary worker's family.

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Sometimes you will be dissatisfied, but the world is full of injustice, and many injustice often flashes before your eyes.

You will say, how can the world treat me like this, why he has everything, and I have nothing? I have had such normal psychology in University.

For example, my classmate has the minister's son, the daughter of a university professor, and I am the son of a farmer.

After the 3 college entrance examination, I went to Peking University and walked in with a cloth pole.

You will find that you can't catch up with their state.

You will find that even if they stop doing nothing for the rest of their lives, they will have more than you do.

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For example, when he was in his freshman year, the boy in the class drove 280 of the Mercedes Benz driver every Friday.

You think we could not afford to buy bicycles at that time. He was sitting on a Mercedes Benz 280. What kind of feeling was it?

You feel that your life is almost finished.

But students, you have to remember a truth. Life is always moving forward. We have to go all our lives.

We are not only four years in college or graduate students, but we have to go all our lives.

You may go to 80 or 90 years old. When you go to the age of 80 or 90, you will never know what life is like. The only thing you can do is to keep going.

So I am very proud to walk from a farmer's son to Peking University and finally come to today.

My mentality is very balanced, but actually I have gone a long way.

Of course, some students will say that you have been very successful when you enter Peking University.

Indeed, Peking University has increased many of my success factors.

For example, because of the strong atmosphere of reading in Peking University, I read a lot of books, and my mind became very keen.

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Peking University does have a humane environment. Cai Yuanpei's bronze statue is set up on the edge of Weiming lake. But there are thousands of people entering Peking University every year. There are thousands of people in Peking University. How many of them can succeed? In fact, the success rate of Peking University students is not higher than that of any big student.

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All success means that you should make further efforts after graduating from university. If the university means success, then there will be no Ma Yun.

I have many similarities with Ma Yun. He has been in the college entrance examination for 3 years, and I have been in the exam for 3 years. He studied English as an English major. I also studied English as a major. In third years, I went to Peking University and he went to Hangzhou Normal University.

I believe many students have never heard of this college. I think I should be more successful than him in my life. But unfortunately, from today's perspective, the market value of Alibaba listing is 3 times that of New Oriental, and I have nothing but a New Oriental.

Not only that, he also has Taobao, Alipay...

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So, your future success has nothing to do with what university you go to, but it's much easier to go abroad.

A lifetime can not go out of the wonderful, the university has laid the foundation for you, but it can not decide your life.

After graduating from college, life has only passed 1/4. How should we spend the next time? First of all, we must stick to it, because you will have nothing if you do not live.

Believe it or not, I always believe that this life is our best paradise.

So I hate suicide or suicide. I think this is a disrespect for life.

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The first is to start from scratch, and I start from zero, and Ma also starts from scratch.

The second kind of entrepreneurship is just like Yang Yuanqing, also known as entrepreneurship, Yang Yuanqing is Liu Chuanzhi's class finally became Lenovo boss.

Jeter Wilson, a famous American management scientist and entrepreneur, also started from an ordinary worker and became a CEO of a company for 20 years. After 20 years in the position of company president, he turned the company into the largest company in the world.

This is also about starting a business, not necessarily doing it yourself.

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Some students asked, "how do I make a training organization as big as you," Yu asked. "It's very simple to go to New Oriental to clean up. If you clean your health very well, then I will upgrade you to minister of health. If you do well in health minister, you will become the director of new East Fang Houqin. When you become the director of New Oriental Logistics, I will send you to Harvard University to study. After I have finished my studies, I will give you all the logistics administration, and you will become the Chief Logistics Officer.

The number one? Second.

You are the president, aren't you? So our maturity is coming slowly, just like a tree growing up and growing up, which can suddenly become a person who succeeds in his own business. Although this kind of person is still there, there are still a few.

I started my business at the age of 32, but only at the age of 32 did I have new Oriental.

So don't worry, it doesn't matter how big a person lives.

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Or my old saying: to live a wonderful life.

My analogy is the metaphor of big trees and grass, and there is another analogy: human life is like a stream, and there is always a dream -- flowing into the sea.

Some people have not gone to the sea for life, but the river is incomplete.

The Yangtze River flows to the sea and the Yellow River flows to the sea, but the Yangtze River and the Yellow River flow to the sea in their own different ways.

The mountains of the Yangtze River split through the mountains to the sea. The Yellow River did not open the mountain and cut stones. It turned around the nine bend and the eighteen bend.

But in any case, life will end again.

The only thing we need to remember is to continue to flow like the Yellow River and the Yangtze River, but we can not become the sediment in the Yellow River and Changjiang River.

To sum up, the best part of life is not relying on others.

There has never been a savior. We want to live wonderfully and happily. We can only rely on the efforts of every friend around us.