On The Perfect Career Of Women

For workplace women, the beginning of every new year is the best time to examine their own pros and cons. Why not end the year? There are too many trivia and confusion in the year, and the year-end award has confused the value of their career and temporarily lost their mental and material satisfaction. If you want to change jobs, you will have to take action after the new year. It's easy to think of a question about what is the perfect career of women.

On the first two days, there was a very hot post on micro-blog. A career counselor asked a 35 year old female bone marrow doctor to do career counseling. One was the director of 300 thousand annual salary and the other was 100 thousand of the annual salary. Plan 。 The former needs to work overtime frequently, work hard and strain, while the latter is fixed for eight hours a day with a leisurely pace. The advice given by the career consultant is to calculate the hourly wage and the two hours of work, but the rhythm is different. The former is equivalent to compressing the latter three years' work to one year, and has the aftermath of extra hardship and health risks. Because it is suggested that women choose to earn less money but less comfortable jobs.

The science and accuracy of career consultation will not be discussed first. An interesting antecedent assumption is that women's nature is considered to be more suitable for ease and ease of occupation.

It is better to have several elements in this occupation: first of all, to have sufficient rest time - not only to work less overtime, but also to spend less time in work, and to keep working longer and less stable, such as not having to travel frequently on a daily basis, not to travel a lot, and to work at a low level - a passive executive type is more suitable than a decision making job; the income is at an appropriate level; most women do not have the responsibility of making money to support their families; married women whose income is slightly inferior to their spouses is more conducive to family stability; if the occupation is conducive to their children's education, they can also add points - it is not difficult to understand why teachers are always the most popular female occupation. I have a successful friend remarried, named for a female primary school teacher's blind date, so that future partners will benefit the children who are going to school.

Obviously, these factors are highly valued in the marriage and love market. Large marriage websites and research institutions have released the "2012 Chinese love and marriage survey report". According to the survey, among the men's choice of spouse, entertainment circle, stewardess, tour guide and media reporter became the most unpopular lovers. These top careers are nothing more than hard work, ups and down and constant bumps.

Those perfect women's careers can be found in national idol dramas. The limited drama I have seen concentrates, such as preschool teachers, the perfect girlfriend of the Beijing love story, the architect, the perfect hostess in a love drama, the playwright, the heroine of a love drama, the other common shop owners, the Du Lala, the white collar, and the female leaders often play the opposite role.

Women's professional life seems to be always stressed on the side of family, love and personal life - whether male playwright or female playwright, it is commonplace for the masses to fetters women.

These generally considered perfect professions bring advantages to women's lives, which are both service and altruistic advantages, and less advantage of being self satisfied. We have more time to take care of their families and share their energies in sharing family responsibilities.

Of course, for single women, we also have more time and less. pressure Let yourself live more easily - the premise is to give up the high sense of satisfaction and sense of value brought about by fierce competition and pressure. In general, an annual salary of 300 thousand requires a job of decision making, and an assistant job with 100 thousand annual salary. This is the assessment that career counselling can not give.

Of course, there is no perfection. Occupation In this case, the world is fair and some must be given up. In my opinion, a more ideal career requires at least a few elements: giving full play to the strengths or advantages of women, thinking more sensibly, and having a good interest drive will make work performance achieve twice the result with half the effort. Wage income can enable women to partially realize their wealth freedom. They can not afford to buy their favorite clothes at the lowest cost. They have their own fields, which are irreplaceable and professional, reducing their attachment and dependence on working men. They can control their time and work rhythm by themselves.

To return to the old saying, if a woman does not change her understanding of the source of her own value, instead of holding herself to "treat herself kindly, why should she live like a man", a self satisfied girl's feelings, only one job in the world is perfect, that is, a full-time wife. You still have to wait for fate to arrange a good employer for you. Of course, chances of meeting a good job these days are much greater than that of meeting a good man. It is better to give up a dream, grasp every opportunity at the moment, ring the Sonata in the heart, strive to get into the society, and be brave enough to get along with the world. Perhaps this is much more rewarding than you think.