When Love Becomes Ready, Will You Do It?

If someone in this world ever appeared, everyone else would become a man, but I would not. "

Why did Chen gently say this sentence has become the love motto of many viewers and readers.

Everlasting and good, once owned or loved, the most precious thing is love. "

The true feelings.

We are used to marrying with the wind. The persistence in reality has become an idiot.

He Yichen insisted on a relationship for seven years, and finally waited until Zhao Mosheng came back.

In films and novels, he is a lover. Undoubtedly, how many women are moved by such a persistence and perseverance.

But in reality, do you wait for someone for seven years without knowing the future? Or watch your best friend for seven years, waiting for a vague love, will you persuade him / her to do it? So, in reality, why Chen is a fool.

We are used to what others do, and I always do not ask why.

I am in love when others are in love. When others marry, I have to marry. Others have rooms and cars, so I have to buy a car.

Everyone in the society is an assembly line product. They only focus on alignment and do not respect themselves. Most people do not want to understand the meaning of marriage. They go into the cage. Finally, they build besieged city, people's scenery, and people's sadness.

Marriage should not be tolerated.

"Life is not like this. Just go ahead and do it". How many times have we heard this sentence? Work is not good enough. Just do it.

Such a life is often full of procrastination, unprincipled compromise, speculation, helplessness and entanglement.

It doesn't mean that you can't do it, but when you can do it, you must think it over.

What I want to eat today is not enough to eat, I will eat other things; I want to travel to a place, but I have no time and no money for the time being. I will wait until later.

But love a person, do not need to marry.

Love and marriage should be for the improvement of self life and the enhancement of the quality of life. It is because the two are happy, eager to be together, eager to live with each other, to have children, and to grow old together.

It is not because of loneliness, nor because of age, or from the eyes of parents and society.

Love and marriage are all inclusive.

As far as the social interaction with the outside world is concerned, it is too small for the bedside to sleep on the pillow.

Laundry and cooking can be called time work, but two people can not avoid physical contact.

In a relationship, it is a close and beautiful contact, and it may become as if it is being raped.

It's hard to say, even if it's a one night stand.

The long term relationship is not easy to see, and it is not easy to get rid of it.

Obviously there is a person at the moment, not lonely in form, but mentally unable to communicate, but also more sad than a person.

You can't gamble on marriage. You don't have to feel guilty about resisting marriage or forced marriage in order to please others.

The reason why "perseverance" is moving is that it is not common in reality.

Many of us will do so, often from the pressure of parents and society.

Parents want their children to be happy, so let their children accept blind dates and urge marriage.

However, the standard of happiness is different. One generation has different pursuits from generation to generation. Feudal society is the matchmaker's statement of parents' life. In the planned economy period, there are also organizations to introduce rationing marriage.

And times change. Do we need to wear new shoes to go the old way?

Many people feel guilty about violating their parents' wishes. They can only marry and wrongfully love each other.

But I want to say, why do you feel guilty? You are an independent individual, not a dependency of your parents.

Marriage is an important event throughout life. Even if you don't talk about love, it will always affect your life. If you want to gamble half your life to please your parents or anyone, you are not stupid.

When we are still laughing at the leftover women, Japanese women have gone out of their own way.

Many women regard marriage as the goal of their life. If they do not get married one day, their life will not be satisfactory.

But after marriage, the goal of life has been reached. She does not know what to do. She can only obediently obey the man, become a man's appendage, and his wife, but no one will think of his wife's name.

While the Chinese are still laughing at the leftover women, Japan has begun to preach "no marriage", and has never been ashamed of it.

Yamamoto Fumio, a Japanese woman writer, wrote several interesting works, "love poisoning", "then I am alone", "31 years old?" and "all the women in the world are married."

This is not to suggest that every woman is not married, but even if she is not married, women can live up to their heads.

If you can't meet the right person, you will not marry.

From the perspective of traditional division of labor, modern women have no need to use marriage to trap themselves. Many women have chosen to give up their comfortable life at home when they are married, and continue to live their own beauty in their careers.

If a man does not earn much more money than you do, and does not take any responsibility for housework and child raising, then this marriage will either make you suffer the bitter end and bear the burden of injustice, or simply do not marry.

The choice is personal. You can choose what you love or what others want you to love.

Love and marriage do not have much in common. The only thing to consider is whether it has made two people better.

Good people let you get the world, bad people let you lose the whole world.

It is a very important thing to marry, to whom, and why to knot. It is not what others urge to do when they are old.

In fact, the key is not to knot or not to knot, but is to treat this matter's attitude.

Compared with a complex life, love is negligible. We don't need to create illusions. If a person is happy, he is alone. What others think is not important at all. The most unacceptable thing in the world is love and marriage.

There are so many irrational factors in love. Marriage is just a matter of rational choice.

Everyone has different definitions of happiness, so the choice of life is different, and it will not be the same as the individual choice.

You can choose what you love or what others want you to love.

Editor's note: when a woman reaches a certain age, she will face the choice of "do it" and "leave it".

But you should know that marriage is a lifelong matter, not because of loneliness, nor because of age or concern for parents and society.

If you love someone, you don't have to do it.