The Way To Success Is To Be A Man Or A Fool.

Why are there two kinds of people who are completely different in the same world? Because how you treat life, what life will do to you. Some people look miserable on the surface and deserve sympathy. But when you really know him, you will find that such people are miserable or miserable, rather than unfair.

You know, no matter what bad environment you are born in, except for your congenital defects, most of the disappointments can be changed. However, some people always break the jars and throw them. They do not think about how to change the status quo, but constantly bring their misfortunes to the outside world, so these people are not worthy of sympathy.

Actually, today's Sociology As long as a person has no problems with his brain, there are many opportunities for him to change his destiny. It's just that some people are too clever to want to harvest, do not want to pay; if they want to succeed, they do not want to grow; they want to change, do not want to act; they want to help and do not trust others; what do you want others to do?

You know, the success of a successful person is not that he has talent or luck, but that they always insist on others when they give up, work more when others are resting, believe more when others are suspicious, learn more when others are entertaining, and make more contributions when others are calculating. It is because he gives more than one action, more actions, more persistence, more trust, more growth, and more gratitude, so they are successful again and again. Is this really lucky? Rather than lucky, it is better than the result of hard work.

Because fools always trust others, so he always willing to give first, others are willing to help him. A wise man always doubts others, so he always haggle over and over, and he is not willing to give him the chance. This is the virtuous circle and vicious circle of life. The more successful people are, the more willing they are to help others, the more successful they will be. The more people fail, the more they refuse the help of others. The more people fail, the more they fail. So being a man is still a good idea.

　　 Life The success must follow the causal relationship. We should not only see the achievements of others, but ignore the efforts of others. A person who does not pay attention to the process will never get the result. A man who does not want to grow will never succeed. A person who is unwilling to help others will never get help from others. The reason is very simple, but no one believes it. Even if someone believes it, very few people do it. Therefore, the success of the world is often referred to as a fool before the success. And those who are smart, unwilling to pay, love to take advantage of it, and those who are calculating and calculating, get nothing.

　　 Behave It's better to be silly. Of course, you can only be silly. Because you are stupid, so you will not care; because you are stupid, so you will not speculate; because you are stupid, so you believe others; because you are silly, so others are assured of cooperation with you; as a result, the fool is stupid, but the smart man fails. Because you are too smart, so you always think that pay is not worth it; because you are too smart, so he is afraid of losing his own; because you are too smart, so you always suspect others have ulterior motives; because you are too smart, so you can not listen to other people's advice, the result of smart is smart.